Dating is not really a biblical word at all. That doesn’t mean
it’s wrong to go out with someone on a “date.” But it is important
to remember what the Bible has to say about developing
romantic friendships. If you begin dating without some clear
guidelines and boundaries, you are headed for disaster.
Let’s start by taking a quick glance at what dating is not.
1. Dating is not for those who aren’t ready. In my
opinion, dating shouldn’t even be a consideration untila young person is at least 16 years old. That’s been
“the law” with my 3 teenage boys, and they’re doing
just fine with it. That doesn’t mean you can’t have good
friendships with the opposite sex; just keep things in a
group environment.
2. Dating is not a great way to “really get to
know someone.” Why? Because everyone is on best
behavior during a date. If you really want to get to
know someone, watch the person at school every day,
or both of you get a job together at McDonald’s. Eight
straight hours over a hot greaser full of fries will tell
you the real tale.
3. Dating is not all it’s cracked up to be. Think
about 2 people out together who hardly know each
other. They’re young and have limited social skills.
They have to try to create awkward conversation for
hours on end. The point is, it’s usually a whole lot
easier to get to know someone among a group of
other friends who can help fill those awkward
moments, keeping things fun.
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